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Nourish OS. The modern way of using a computer.
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I sure hope that Jen Lyndall was well paid for the garbage report that she presented to TRAC on Thursday June 18, 2026 titled "Data Summary Report Canagagigue Creek And Floodplain". I am not bringing into disrepute Ms. Lyndall's qualifications or credentials. I watched the entire on-line video (Woolwich Website) and was quite impressed with her presentation manner, speaking clarity, thinking on her feet handling questions etc. It is the actual content of her report that I find dishonest, disingenuous and disgusting. I expect that a huge part of that is because her report should be more accurately titled "Data Summary Report of a Polluter's Talented and Energetic, Decades Long Efforts To Minimize and Coverup Toxic Pollution".
I have spent much of the last thirty-six years debunking all the lies and distortions presented by Elmira's infamous polluter. Sorry I need to be more specific when Woolwich Township have happily hosted Varnicolor Chemical, Rothsay Concentrates, Breslube/Safety-Kleen and Uniroyal Chemical. I am now referring to Uniroyal/Lanxess. I have spoken at UPAC, CPAC, RAC, TAG, Woolwich Council and even Regional Council. I have written reports to all those semi to fully corrupt bodies plus TRAC. The general rule is minimum to zero questions followed by NOTHING. No followup, no requests for clarification, no discussion and no debate. This is essentially how Uniroyal/Crompton/Chemtura and Lanxess have operated namely by denying occasionally but mostly simply ignoring legitimate, researched opposition.
This latest report is full of omissions as well as red herrings. DDT breakdown products (DDD, DDE) are not well examined. Numerically lower Reaches (1, 2) in the Creek are given short shrift. Provincial and Federal health criteria are noticeably missing in action. One would think that they have some serious value in a report like this. Logarithmic concentration scales for many of the Figures are a little unusual compared to reports done by CRA/GHD. The charitable view might be that CRA/GHD have more accurately concluded the technical capabilities of most of the public consultation members. The uncharitable view might be that CRA/GHD are simply continuing their amateurish report writing efforts by avoiding logarithmic scales even when they are appropriate and advantageous.
More and better needs to be done with these logarithmic scales. Mostly the vertical scales (concentration) need to be better with more values written on the vertical scale. This would help elucidate the values of the raw data presented by Ms. Lyndall. Also short shrift again seems to have occurred with Lindane in Ms. Lyndall's report. Samples were taken and values determined in some earlier major reports (eg. 2020 GHD) .
Overall Ms. Lyndall was handed a croc of an assignment. Personally I would be hard pressed to want to put my name on any report that only purports to be legitimate and scientific. Gussying up crap science from those before you is a stinky job with some of the odour bound to transfer your way. All my past objections to these Creek reports continue on here as they have NEVER been honestly or accurately publicly debated. This includes MDLs, shovels versus core samplers and locational sampling biases.
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2022’s Insomniacs After School, Volume 10 is the tenth tankōbon in Makoto Ojiro’s contemporary manga series. Serialized in Shogakukan’s seinen manga magazine Weekly Big Comic Spirits, Insomniacs After School has been ongoing since May 2019. The English translation of Volume 10 was released in 2025.
Isaki Magari’s heart condition having again failed to kill her, she is free to rejoin her doting boyfriend Ganta Nakami at school, in particular at their astronomy club.
First, they must navigate Christmas and New Year’s
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During this residency, I explore the fragility and fluidity of glass
juxtaposed with the warmth of nostalgic colour and traditional
design of Türkiye. Pulling inspiration from my childhood home as a
Turkish immigrant and transforming these nostalgic bits of memory
into my contemporary glass style of today.
Growing up, I always loved sitting on the rug, richly decorative and
reminiscent of a home across the world, playing backgammon.
After several prototypes, full and contour fuses, I was able to create
this memorable pastime into a playable glass backgammon board
with reversible checkers.
The kilim rug consists of many firings ranging between
1150-1570°F to take advantage of the different melting points of
glass. CCGG has allowed me time and access to play with various
firings combined into single pieces of art to create this cozy, glass
living room complete with entertainment and lighting.
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Today's K-W Record has an article by Bill Jackson titled "Woolwich allocates water to Elmira projects". This of course is in relation to the Region of Waterloo Water Crisis which was first announced last December. There are three specific projects in Elmira which can now proceed with the best known likely being the former Trinity United Church on Arthur St. The other two projects are the infamous Hawk Ridge Homes down on the corner of Union St. and First Ave. It is infamous due to the lengthy delays occasioned by the presence of Sulco Chemical (CCC) and Lanxess Canada (Uniroyal) across the road. Woolwich wisely attempted to not approve this subdivision based upon noise and odours at a minimum and toxic air emissions as a possibility. The third project is the residential construction scheduled for 22 Church St. which I believe is the now former Home Hardware site.
I would suggest that all of these projects should make hay while the sun shines because just like the current power outages happening this morning in Elmira, the water supply is on a shaky foundation. The Region of Waterloo are so desperate that they are squeezing the 20% safety allocation as well as recommissioning both old well fields closed due to contamination and or other likely infrastructure issues.
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Listen Here: A new chapter for What’s Happening In Your NeighbourhoodFor a long time, our weekly blog posts have been a way to share updates, free activities, and things we thought would be fun, inclusive, and accessible—especially for members of our community with disabilities. As things have grown, we’ve been talking about making a shift, and this is it.
We’re excited to introduce a new monthly podcast, hosted by Simon Garcia. Simon is passionate about staying connected and helping others do the same. Each episode will spotlight what’s happening around Kitchener-Waterloo, bringing you community highlights in a more personal, conversational way.
Episode 1: What’s Happening in K-W this JulyWelcome to the very first episode of Simon’s Podcast! Each month, Simon will highlight inclusive, social, and fun things happening across Kitchener-Waterloo—perfect for getting involved, meeting new people, and building community.
This month, Simon and Amanda chat about some great things happening in our community including:
AND MORE!
There’s so much happening in our community every month! Whether you’re looking to socialize, try something new, or just get out of the house, there’s something here for you. Stay tuned for next month’s episode for more local highlights! For information about any of these events or to chat with the team from Out and About Waterloo Region, please email connecting@outandaboutwr.ca
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2003 The Sundering is the second volume in Walter Jon Williams’ Dread Empire’s Fall trilogy, which is a subset of his Dread Empire’s Fall series1.
The clash between the Naxid upstarts and Loyalist Home Fleet did not develop entirely as the Loyalists would have preferred, what with the near-total annihilation of the Home Fleet. No worries! That setback can easily be managed with properly applied censorship and skillfully deployed willful blindness.
Or so any decent peer worth their title would conclude. Lord Gareth Martinez and Lady Caroline Sula, whose lives may well depend on the outcome of future battles, prefer to be socially irresponsible and militarily victorious.
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KITCHENER – With the Kitchener Panthers and Welland Jackfish meeting for the second time in three days, blunders on the defensive side of the ball and three separate five-run innings for Welland cost the Panthers.
The defending Dominico Cup champions dropped the Panthers 19-5, in a rare Monday nighter.
“A bullpen game,” as head coach Pete Kiefer mentioned before first pitch. He went with Samuel Quintana, while Welland went with Eric Pettipiece.
A battle of southpaws on the mound, the Panthers rallied in the third inning after conceding the opening run of the game. Yunior Ibarra and Josh Williams pulled through with clutch RBIs - both with the bases loaded - to give Kitchener an early advantage.
It was their only lead of the night, and it didn't last long.
The defence struggled to convert on the infield, and that would define the night.
Five errors from the Panthers did not give the pitching staff much support; neither did 12 stolen bases from the Jackfish. The pitching staff had issues finding the strike zone, issuing 17 walks.
Quintana struggled early on against the right-handed portion of Welland’s lineup, but was dealing against their lefties.
Despite six strikeouts, he was pulled after 3.2 innings, surrendering four hits and three earned runs.
Amidst the noise from the away bats, Mateo Zeppieri hit his fifth homer of the year, a no-doubt moonshot onto Ottawa Street in the fifth inning.
Welland’s bats kept getting hotter. A grand slam in the seventh put the game to bed.
The starters from tonight took the decisions, with Pettipiece picking up the win, Quintana the loss.
The Panthers will return to action on Wednesday afternoon, for a Canada Day clash with the Guelph Royals at 2:05 p.m.
The first 500 fans inside Jack Couch Park will receive a Panthers Canada Day Hawaiian shirt.
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BOXSCOREOur Annual General Meeting was held on June 24, 2026. The Board of Directors welcomed guests from KW Habilitation’s IDEA Collective, the Employee Resource Council, the Committee for Excellence, the Experts in Lived Experience Council, the Finance Committee, and the KW Habilitation Leadership Team.
The meeting marked several important leadership transitions. Jeff Collins retired from the Board, and Satish Mistry completed his term as President. Later that evening, Mark Sauvé was elected as the new President. We also welcomed two new members to the board of directors; Alison Sproule and Emily Staub.
Another highlight of the evening was the publication of our Annual Report, Where Belonging Grows.
It highlights the impact we’ve made together over the past year, shares stories from our community, and reflects the progress we’re making toward our vision. It’s a great way to see how our collective efforts make a difference every day.
To read our Annual Report, please click here.
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The Canadian Resource Centre for Victims of Crime (CRCVC) is currently seeking passionate and dedicated individuals to join our Board of Directors. These volunteer positions are unpaid. We are particularly seeking candidates with expertise in finance, fundraising, and marketing to support our strategic direction and advance our mission of supporting victims of crime across Canada. CRCVC is committed to equity, diversity, and inclusion. We strongly encourage applications from individuals of diverse backgrounds, including those who identify as women, Indigenous Peoples, persons with disabilities, and members of racialized communities. If you are interested in contributing to meaningful change and supporting victims’ rights, please send your resume and a brief expression of interest to board@crcvc.ca.
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We’re officially moving into a new Co-Chair model! Previously, one of the two CYPT Co-Chair positions has been the Region of Waterloo Director of Children’s Services. Barb Cardow has been in this seat since the CYPT was formed in 2011. As of June 2026, CYPT Voting Members endorsed a new model not to have a default Co-Chair role for Director of Children’s Services. Under this new model, we will have two Co-Chairs who serve four-year terms and are selected on a rolling two-year basis.
Background
As found in the CYPT Charter (page 14), one of the two CYPT Co-Chair positions has historically been the Region of Waterloo Consolidated Municipal Services Manager (CMSM). The CMSM has an ongoing responsibility for planning for Children’s Services in Waterloo Region and therefore has had the ongoing duty to Co-Chair the Children and Youth Planning Table. The Director of Children’s Services (currently Barb Cardow) has been in this seat since the CYPT was formed in 2011.
In 2017, CYPT Voting Members reviewed the ongoing duty of the CMSM as Co-Chair. At that time they decided the Service System Manager Co-Chair was appropriate and would continue — with intentional review in a couple of years’ time.
On May 4, 2026, Barb shared with Voting Members her recommendation not to have a default Co-Chair role for Director of Children’s Services. Some of the reasoning is as follows:
As of June 2026, CYPT Voting Members endorsed a new model not to have a default Co-Chair role for Director of Children’s Services. Under this new model, we will have two Co-Chairs who serve four-year terms and are selected on a rolling two-year basis.
If you have any questions, please reach out to Alison Pearson, Manager of the CYPT, at APearson@regionofwaterloo.ca.
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My focus today is on the 2020 Canagagigue Creek Sediment and Soil Investigation although most of my comments refer to the bulk of what passes for scientific study and investigation surrounding the Creek over the last fifteen to twenty years. This report is one of those recently examined by Jen Lyndall of Integra Inc.. Keep clearly in mind that I'm not commenting on groundwater or other environmental issues today hence please do not make the mistake of thinking that my silence in any way imparts some kind of tacit approval. It does not!
The 2020 GHD report on Lindane, DDD, DDE, DDT and Dioxins/Furans in the Creek is essentially a whitewash or if you will a greenwash. Above and beyond so many massive deposits of these toxic chemicals found in creek sediments and creekbank soils is the use and abuse of Method Detection Limits in assigning Non Detects throughout this report. The worst offenders are Non Detects with Sediment samples however there are some doozies with soils as well. Overall the number of non Detects with high to very high Method Detection Limits has ruptured the credibility and accuracy of this entire report. This goes for all four reaches of the Canagagigue Creek as well as of some of the Background sampling.
If as I have indicated above massive deposits of various toxic chemicals have been found then how is this report deceptive and deceitful ? Firstly all criteria exceedances are supposed to be highlighted. They simply are not. Too many have been missed and only discerning, competent readers will spot them on the first time through. Most will not. That in and of itself is deceptive and misleading. Secondly some of the MDLs are out of this world as they are 10, 20 and or 100 times higher than the health criteria presented in the report for various chemicals whether located in sediment or soils. In my opinion some of these MDLs appear to be tailored towards certain reaches for example in order to minimize them and to give the appearance that other reaches are more contaminated.
I have over the years and decades presented this information before. Like everything else that does not follow the narrative put forth to the public; contradictory evidence, opinions and reports are given zero weight by the polluter, fellow travellors and friends. Inconvenient facts and truth are simply dropped and ignored and generally discussion avoided as much as possible.
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The colour and shape of these pattypans are phenomenal. You might start to see them as “Sunburst squash,” and looking at them the description fits perfectly.
I asked a vendor if Sunburst squash and pattypan were the same: she said yes, but that customers seemed to relate better to the term pattypan. Interesting.
Immediately recognizable by its roundish, elliptical shape and lovely scalloped edges, the pattypan squash looks something like a UFO. Just as interesting, to me anyway, the term “pattypan” is likely derived from its French name pâtisson.
They are part of the range of summer squashes that have a variety of interesting shapes, from elongated necks to cute little hats with fluted edges, acorn squash and zucchini. They mostly all have a dense, spongy flesh.
They are great to cook on the grill too: I just cut them to even sizes (with some left whole depending on their diameter), slosh them around in some olive oil, maybe some balsamic and spices, and grill to al dente.
Beautiful to look at. Delicious to eat.
Check out my latest post Pattypan (or UFO!) squash from AndrewCoppolino.com.
Ursula K. Le Guin’s somewhat obscure 1980 The Beginning Place is a stand-alone portal fantasy.
Hugh Rogers is a skilled grocery checker; he is also a large, awkward, shy man who lives with his mother. It’s not a pleasant life. She is determined to keep him with her, but resents his presence. She treats him to relentless domination and veiled hostility.
One day, Hugh stumbles over an escape.
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WELLAND - Now, that's a way to make a first impression.
Jorge Minyety struck out five and gave up one run on two hits in five innings, as the Kitchener Panthers went into Welland and sunk the Jackfish 5-1 Saturday night.
Minyety, Arizona Diamondbacks farm hand for the last three seasons, signed with the Panthers Thursday night.
Yosvani Penalver drove in two runs, despite going 0-for-five.
Malik Williams extended his hit streak to 13 games with a single in the seventh, which drove in Kitchener's fifth run.
Welland loaded the bases in the ninth with one out, with Brandon Hupe representing the tying run at the plate. But Hupe hit into a game-ending double play.
Teo Ortega was tagged with the loss. He gave up three runs (one earned) on five hits in five innings of work. He struck out five.
Kitchener improves to 7-13 on the season, snapping a four-game losing skid.
Welland drops to 12-8 and falls to fourth in the CBL standings,.
Kitchener has a rare Sunday off before Welland seeks revenge Monday night at Jack Couch Park at 7:05 p.m.
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BOXSCOREOn a weekend getaway for their true-crime book club, four women retreat to the sole cottage on isolated Snakebite Island. But what was supposed to be a fun weekend of getting trashed on rosé and talking serial killers takes a dark turn when a member of the group is found dead on the shore. Murdered. By one of her supposed friends.
Under the surface, there’s turbulence in the group. Blackmail, affairs and addiction. Financial misconduct. A missing husband. All of the women are hiding dangerous secrets, but how far are they willing to go to keep them?
The murder creates a dilemma for the three surviving book club members: report the death and have their own lives shredded by an investigation or use their true-crime knowledge to stage their friend’s disappearance on the lake.
The consequences of their decision will ripple outwards, creating new risks and threatening to unravel their entire net of lies.
How could it possibly not be? It's a Data Summary of many, repeated, poorly done, amateurish and inaccurate other reports all done by bought and paid for consultants on behalf of their dirty polluting clients be they Uniroyal, Crompton, Chemtura or Lanxess. I will concede that the level of "dirtiness" may be decreasing as the time distance from the gross daily dumping until now continues to expand.
Background concentrations are extremely high near the start of the report as comparisons are made for example between Upstream Background concentrations of Dioxins/Furans and Total DDT in various media (soil, sediment, surface water) and further downstream Reaches in the Creek. I did not see any reference to various relevant criteria on any of these Figures and in fact I found it very difficult to find tiny subtly different coloured circles representing concentrations of contaminants relative to alleged Background values. If the Background levels are actually that high then I would suggest that upstream (& downstream) dumping (legal or not) is a significant cause. Like most of the inaccurate information and data concerning this site, inappropriate Background locations have all been properly and publicly presented at public meetings simply to be ignored for evermore if it does not suit the polluter's/regulator's narrative.
I did not find fish tissue concentrations.in this report. A skeptic might suggest that that is because the data is strong and very negative concerning the ongoing health threats to both wildlife and human life ingesting contaminated fish (mercury, PCBs, DDT, Dioxins/Furans). A kinder, gentler critic might suggest that Lanxess/MECP simply did not advise Ms. Lyndall that that data existed. This perhaps would be in-line with the nonsense and disingenuous claims of various remediation done around the site. I was there when most of these "remediations" allegedly took place and the Figure showing them is a crock. Further to this I just love it when Uniroyal/Lanxess "fellow travellors" expose their biases and dishonesty. Hadley did it with crap about the on-site pits and ponds being "...remediated thoroughly". Utter bull Hadley. You weren't there and none of them were excavated through the bottom of the pits and lagoons which is where the contaminants went on their way to both the Upper Aquifer and the Municipal Aquifer. Also Susan Bryant made some dumb remark about former municipal landfill M2, on the Uniroyal property, being closed before Uniroyal made Agent Orange. What kind of crap is this Susan? One I think your facts are wrong but even if your timing is on, so what? This landfill is on Uniroyal/Lanxess property and after the municipality quit putting garbage in the landfill it was still right there for more industrial disposal. Also Ken Reger (former employee) testified at the Environmental Appeal Board hearings that he saw Uniroyal drums buried there and finally both 2,4-D and 2,4,5-T wastes were buried there and once leaking you had Agent Orange with the 2,3,7,8 TCDD probably already in the 2,4,5-T and the 2,4-D having it's own dioxins along for the toxic ride.
I can't help but notice that there has been some "thinning" of data in Integral's Data Summary. For example including the various government health criteria for dioxins/Furans and DDT in various media (soil, sediments, fish tissue) would give a far better understanding of the risk involved with the concentrations of these chemicals found in all media from fish tissue to soil, sediment and even surface water which is damn interesting when we've been advised for decades that these chemicals are hydrophobic and essentially insoluble in water. The fact is they are soluble but at a very low concentration plus they are more likely to exist in the Creek as DDT and Dioxins/F attached to particles as suspended sediments in the water.
All in all a useless report but a fun read nevertheless. I do not blame the author (Lyndall) so much as Hadley and other Lanxess fact deniers and fantasy boosters.
HAMILTON - The Kitchener Panthers could not recover after giving up five runs in the third inning, falling 5-4 to the Hamilton Cardinals Friday night.
Kitchener was off to the races, scoring three runs in the first.
But after the Cardinals posted the single-inning five spot, the Panthers could only muster a single run in the fifth in an attempt to catch up.
Yunior Ibarra and Raffi Gross each had two hits in the loss.
Ibarra how has a hit in five straight games after going hit less in five of his previous six.
Malik Williams continued his torrid pace, registering a hit in his 12th straight game and remains among the league leaders with a .435 batting average.
Owen MacNeil gave up five runs on five hits in five innings in the loss.
Hector Yan struck out eight in 6.1 innings of work for Hamilton, giving up four runs (three earned) on six hits in the win.
Kitchener has lost four straight and 10 of the last 11, and have Welland for a home-and-home beginning Saturday night at The Pond.
On the tail end, Welland visits Kitchener Monday night at 7 p.m.
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After years and years of projects, deadlines, and meetings that probably could’ve been emails… one thing has become very clear to me. The best project managers aren’t always the loudest in the room.
Most people picture a great PM as someone who’s always talking, always steering the conversation, always “in control” of everything happening in the room. And sometimes… they’re just trying to finish their coffee before it goes cold — or in my case, before the ice gives up completely.
In reality, I feel like the PMs who make things work tend to be much quieter than expected. They listen properly before they jump in. They ask questions instead of assuming things — not to challenge anyone, but to understand what’s actually going on, what’s missing, where they can help unblock… and where they might need to quietly step in and support the team.
They notice who hasn’t spoken in a while and gently bring them into the conversation (usually the same person who drops the actual answer right at the end). And they stay calm when everyone else is slightly rushing, but trying very hard not to show it.
Every delivery environment has plenty of opinions. What it often lacks is clarity. And that’s usually the real job.
When things are running well, it’s rarely luck. It’s usually because someone is quietly doing the invisible work behind the scenes — aligning people, chasing decisions before they stall, flagging risks early, and making sure “we’ll come back to this” doesn’t turn into “why didn’t we decide this earlier?”
You don’t always see it happening… but you definitely feel the difference. The best PMs don’t just manage delivery — they create clarity and reduce friction. They turn messy updates into clear next steps. They keep timelines realistic when pressure is pushing everyone to “just say yes.” They protect the team from unnecessary chaos and make progress feel steady, even when things aren’t.
At some point, you realise something simple. We’re not just managing tasks. We’re managing tension, uncertainty, and expectations — constantly bridging the gap between what people want, what we think is possible, and what’s actually possible.
Meetings are part of it, but they don’t need to be complicated. A good stand-up is just: where are we, what’s blocked, what needs help, and what’s next. No theatre. No overthinking. No 40-minute discussion that becomes a Slack message later anyway.
Then there’s the human side — often underestimated, but for me, it’s at the core of everything. It’s not just about tracking tasks. It’s about tracking people — both within the team and beyond it. Knowing that “I’m fine” doesn’t always mean fine. And that a missed deadline is rarely just about time — it’s usually confusion, overload, or something happening in the background that never makes it into a status update. That’s why one-to-ones matter. That’s why checking in matters — not just to ask what’s happening, but to understand how your team actually feels about the work. Because at the end of the day, delivery isn’t just about what gets done. It’s about how people feel while getting it done.
So if you’re a project manager sitting in self-doubt because you feel like you’re not constantly adding value… just remember this: The less you try to prove you’re the smartest person in the room, the more value you actually create. Because it’s not about always speaking, always stepping in, or always steering everything. It’s about staying consistent. Calm. Clear. Reliable when things aren’t. It’s about trusting your team enough to let specialists do what they do best — and stepping in when it actually matters. You don’t compete with your team. You create the space for them to do their best work and support them when they need it.
You should know what’s going on… but you don’t need to react to everything immediately. Wait until your voice actually adds value… and then speak up when it really counts. Because real influence isn’t about volume or visibility — it’s about timing, clarity, and impact.
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Boards often worry about their relationship with their single employee, the Executive Director (ED). Many times, when we speak individually with a board chair or an Executive Director, their greatest concern is a fear that they are not aligned and may be heading for trouble. In most cases, board meetings are run well, with the ED providing relevant information, and the personal relationship between the chair and the ED is strong.
So, what is missing?
Most often, we find the board has not conducted a formal ED evaluation in some time.But why does this matter if the board seems happy and the chair and ED have a good relationship? In many cases, the board chair has been reassuring the ED and frequently noting that everything is going well.
What is really missing here is direct communication with the board—the ED’s true employer.The assumption is that the ED should be satisfied with the chair’s reassurance that they are doing well and that the board is happy with their performance. However, sometimes the chair may not feel comfortable leading an evaluation of an ED with whom they have a positive relationship. There may be a reluctance to identify areas for improvement or uncertainty about assessing a role that differs significantly from their own expertise. Chairs may not know what to say or how to approach the conversation. In addition, there may be no one on the board with HR leadership experience, or the Governance Committee may be unwilling to take on this added responsibility.
In the meantime, an information gap develops between the board and the ED. This gap can lead the ED to consider other opportunities, mistakenly believing they are not meeting board expectations.
What does a formal evaluation provide that reassurance from the board chair cannot?A formal evaluation delivers feedback from the entire board—not just the chair. It provides a structured, regular (typically annual) opportunity for the board and ED to engage in meaningful dialogue about expectations, performance, and unmet needs—on both sides.
The evaluation also creates a formal record that remains in the ED’s confidential file, extending beyond the tenure of any single board chair. It documents the board’s expectations for future directors and helps guide the ED in developing a clear plan to meet operational needs and support its governance.
To ensure openness and transparency in a relationship that is critical to organizational success, the formal ED evaluation process is an essential tool for effective communication—and well worth the time it requires.
A Capacity Canada PerspectiveExceptional boards understand that strong communication with the ED is fundamental to both board and organizational success.
They schedule an annual ED evaluation process, typically led by the Governance Committee, ensuring input from both the board and the ED. This process creates an opportunity to recognize what is working well and to clarify expectations that have not yet been achieved. It strengthens leadership alignment around strategic goals and identifies how the board can support the ED’s continued growth and success.
Perhaps the glue that binds a board and ED together is structured communication. Who would have thought?What does your organization need to move from performance to practice? Visit this page to see how Capacity Canada can help.
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A week ago yesterday the TRAC meeting was held in Woolwich Council Chambers. For the second time I had to get on the Township to post the video of that meeting on their Woolwich Township website. To their credit they did so quickly after I called.
There are smart people on that committee including Sebastian Seibel-Achenbach. There are smart and credentialed people on that committee including a hydrogeologist, a municipal planner, a regional water department staffer, possibly even a biologist or an ecologist. There are technical people and some very untechnical and uncredentialed persons with other soft skills such as human psychology, human manipulation and other skills; such as Susan Bryant. There are honest people and blatant liars present. There are a few with knowledge of the site and far too many who know nothing prior to their appointment to the committee. Some have common sense others less. What there is a complete lack of is members with serious Elmira environmental knowledge going back to 1989 combined with honesty, common sense and at least a minimum of hard, technical skills including maths and sciences. NOT ONE, and it is intentional, on that committee has all those requirements. I do which is precisely why mayor Shantz , Lanxess and the Min. of Environment (MECP) do not want me on that committee nor able to speak to them directly.
I viewed the entire TRAC meeting (June 18/26) on the Woolwich website last evening and it was beyond painful. Misunderstandings, incorrect facts and guesswork were prevalent throughout the meeting and they were NEVER corrected or clarified by the few who did know the facts and the truth. At one point Sebastian (the brightest light of a very dim bunch) conflated numbers of samples taken with number of DETECTIONS of two toxic chemicals. Hence he asked if that particular Table spelled out that more attention should be paid to the upstream reaches of the Creek ( Reaches 3 & 4) closest to the Lanxess site than the further downstream ones of Reaches 2 and 1. Not only did nobody correct him or clarify his obvious honest mistake but Hadley Stamm (*5 minute wonder) of Lanxess actually had the nerve and the brass to answer him with "Right but I'm not going to take that jump yet.". She actually agreed with his incorrect conclusion but was careful to delay that conclusion until the next or a later meeting.
Jen Lyndall of Integral Inc. somewhat mystifies me. Apparently she is a former friend or colleague of Hadley Stamm (not good). She presented the first part of a Data Summary to TRAC at the meeting. In my opinion this is just one more in a long litany of Public Relations nonsense issued by the polluter and its' successors for the purpose of green washing. There is way more than enough data available between soil, sediment and fish tissue sampling to know how grossly contaminated the Canagagigue Creek still is, even after allegedly stopping dumping over fifty years ago. It would seem to me that five decades of flushing and flooding of the Creek should have long ago flushed all the mobile and even semi mobile deeper sediments down into the Grand River and further (Lake Erie) by now. Unless of course contaminated groundwater and soils/sediments are still via natural processes (or with help) being released from the grossly contaminated former Uniroyal Chemical site.
My final comment today : Sebastian pointed out to Jen Lyndall (Integral) that Tables 3.3, 3.4, 3.5 and 3.6 all indicated that dioxins/furans were DETECTED in surface sediments, sub-surface sediments, surface soils and sub-surface soils 100% of the time from a total of well over a thousand different samples. Oops I misspoke! Table 3.4 has the only dioxin/furan detections below 100% for sub-surface sediments. It was 98% . Ms. Lyndall responded "Yes even in background locations which is interesting" . Credit goes to her for being accurate and honest on that point although either Hadley or some other DNAPL/ Dioxin deniers suggested that dioxins are ubiquitous. They are not thank goodness ubiquitous at the concentrations also indicated in those four Tables.
The scam, the sham and the coverup continues. I still expect some token, tiny cleanup of part of the Creek with everybody's fan favourite Susan Bryant being handed some environmental award for her acting skills over thirty plus years, aided and abetted by the guilty parties.
In today’s newsletter, I’m excited to share five ideas from Fair Share: How Men and Women Can Create a More Equitable Workplace Together, a new book from my friends W. Brad Johnson PhD and David G. Smith PhD. I fondly refer to them as “the good guys” because of the title of their previous best-selling book and because they truly walk the talk when it comes to being wonderful allies.
Fair Share explores how outdated work norms undermine careers, caregiving, and gender equity. As Johnson and Smith point out, “The workplace is broken — and it’s holding everyone back.”
I hope that last sentence caught your attention. Let’s dive in and explore some of my favorite ally actions from the book.
–Karen
1. Don’t assume things are fineI love this truth bomb from Chapter 1:
“In too many organizations, leaders fall prey to the ‘emperor’s new clothes phenomenon,’ where they never hear the unvarnished truth. Both because they don’t ask for feedback regarding their gender-inclusive leader performance and because they have a track record of defensiveness and deflection when they get a whiff of unflattering performance feedback, those around them paint bad employee experience data in a favorable light before it arrives on their desk.”
To counteract this phenomenon, Smith and Johnson urge us to seek out non-inclusive behavior we may not personally encounter.
Attend an employee resource group (ERG) meeting for a demographic you’re not a part of (after first asking if you’d be welcome). Ask what’s on their mind. Ask what they wish others knew about situations they’ve encountered that lacked fairness.
And build your awareness so that you can be a better ally.
2. Call out “sludge”For a section about supporting flexible work options, Johnson and Smith interviewed Jody Thompson at CultureRx, who mentioned “sludge.” It’s a disparaging comment about someone who is working remotely or has a family obligation. For example, “She’s working from home today? Yeah, right. She’s probably doing laundry and binge watching Hallmark movies.” Or “He has to leave early? Why can’t his spouse pitch in?”
Sludge tends to shift thinking away from productivity and results, and instead focuses on grousing about how someone is structuring their time.
If we hear it, let’s call it out. Personally, I’d recommend something along the lines of, “Actually, research shows that flexible work leads to higher engagement and better performance. Do you have concerns about them getting their work done on time?”
3. Avoid masculinity contestsOne aspect of traditional workplace cultures that undermine efforts to create more fairness is the masculinity contest. Johnson and Smith describe them as hypercompetitive displays of dominance, strength, stamina and outworking everyone else.
I found myself thinking of things I’ve witnessed. Employees who felt they couldn’t go home before their supervisor. Coworkers who bragged about pulling all-nighters to meet deadlines. Plank challenges to kick off meetings.
I bet you’ve seen some examples, too.
As Johnson and Smith point out, such displays of strength and stamina can become a recipe for stress, burnout, and poorer work quality. And they can influence who is rewarded and advanced.
Look out for masculinity contests in your office, and push back.
4. Normalize career pausesSmith and Johnson point out the various reasons career pauses happen, including childcare, eldercare, health needs, military service, retiring-unretiring, and career pivots.
Because pauses are going to happen, they recommend normalizing them to reduce any stigma. For example,
I’ll add one more idea: Update your résumé, CV, or LinkedIn profile to include any breaks you’ve taken over the years.
p.s. Because I try to follow my own advice, I added a pause I took in 2012 to my LinkedIn profile. LinkedIn has an option to list career breaks for full-time parenting, bereavement, career transition, well-being, etc.
5. Initiate a connectionJohnson and Smith emphasize the importance of providing equal access to relationships that might lead to career development opportunities. These include mentoring, advocacy, information sharing networks, and other reciprocal connections that can make a difference for those who are historically overlooked or marginalized.
They encourage us all to initiate such connections. One of their suggestions is to use these simple words:
“I wonder if I can get your take on something I’m working on. I’d value your perspective.”
I love it.
That’s all for this week. Many, many thanks to “the good guys” for collaborating with me on this week’s newsletter. I highly recommend you get a copy of their book, Fair Share, which is available starting June 30.
Please note: I’m off next week to celebrate the July 4th holiday and will be back in your inboxes on July 10.
Karen Catlin (she/her), Author of the Better Allies® book series
Copyright © 2026 Karen Catlin. All rights reserved.
Together, we can make a difference with the Better Allies® approach.
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2025’s This Monster of Mine is the first volume of Shalini Abeysekara’s This Monster of Mine secondary universe fantasy series.
Sarai’s career as a healer ended when at age fourteen, she accepted an invitation from the wrong man. After being brutalized, she is thrown off the top of Edessa’s Sidran Tower. She is remembered only as the Sidran Tower Girl, whose murder was never solved.
Except Sarai survived. One day, she will return to Edessa.
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KITCHENER - Sometimes, you have to tip your cap to the opposing pitcher.
Guelph's Liam Watt struck out seven and gave up two hits in seven innings of work, as he helped the Royals to a 6-3 win over Kitchener Thursday night.
Kitchener's only runs came on a Mateo Zeppieri three-run home run in the ninth inning.
He was the only Panthers starter not to get dinged with a strikeout.
Evan Elliott gave up five runs (four earned) off 10 hits in 5.2 innings in the loss. Jake Liberta was solid in relief, he gave up one unearned run and two hits in the remaining 3.1 innings, striking out four batters.
Kitchener drops to 6-12 on the year, while Guelph improved to 10-7.
Kitchener is on the road for two games, beginning in Hamilton Friday night at 7:35 p.m. and Welland Saturday at 6:05 p.m.
The Panthers host Welland Monday at 7:05 p.m. for a makeup game of a previous rain out.
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BOXSCOREWhen I first started learning data analysis using Python, I thought the process was pretty simple, just download a dataset, open a Python IDE or notebook, run the df.head(), create a few charts, identify some insights, and summarize the findings. That workflow appeared in nearly every practice project I worked on, so I naturally assumed that’s what data analysts did.
As I’ve completed more projects, and most importantly, since I started working as a data analyst. I’ve found that companies aren’t actually asking for dashboards. Instead, they ask questions like:
"Why are customers complaining more often?"
"Why are delivery issues increasing?"
"Why are customer ratings getting worse?"
"What exactly is going wrong?"
To answer these questions, simply creating charts isn’t enough. It requires a deeper analysis of the data, identifying patterns, testing assumptions, and connecting those findings to real-world business problems.
That’s the mindset I want to adopt this time… hehehe..
Starting with the Problem, Not the DataRight now, I’m working with the Customer Analytics dataset from Kaggle. Like always, my first instinct was to open the dataset and start exploring it. This time, instead of writing a line of SQL queries or Python code, I decided to try something different.
I asked myself, “If I were actually working as a data analyst at this company, what kind of problems would management ask me to solve?”
Not, Show me the distribution of customer ratings, Create five visualizations, or Build a dashboard.
More realistic would be…, “Customers seem dissatisfied with their shopping experience. Could you look into what’s going on?”
Dashboards Describe. Investigations Explain.Actually.. there’s nothing wrong with dashboards. They’re incredibly useful. Dashboards often just tell us what’s happening, but they don’t always explain why. And that’s exactly what I want to focus on in this project. Instead of compiling a collection of unrelated charts, I want each analysis to help answer a specific business question.
So… Where Does My Investigation Begin?Yeahh here.. I was facing a business challenge. Management wasn’t asking me for a new dashboard. Nor were they asking for five Power BI visualizations or reports. Instead, they made a much more specific question:
“We’ve noticed that a surprisingly large proportion of orders are not being delivered on time. Could this operational issue be affecting our customers’ overall experience?”
Rather than making assumptions, these concerns can actually be verified with data. Before diving into explanations or visualizations, I want to verify the KPI itself.
This quick calculation gives us the percentage of late deliveries.
late_rate = (♦
df["Reached.on.Time_Y.N"] == 1
).mean()
print(f"Late Delivery Rate: {late_rate:.2%}")
I am now facing a real business problem, not just a feeling or an assumption, but measurable KPIs. This immediately shifts the perspective of my investigation. Instead of saying, “Customers seem dissatisfied with their shopping experience.”
Now we can say:
“Early assessment of the KPIs indicates that approximately 59.67% of orders were not delivered on time, causing concern about the potential continued impact on customer satisfaction and the overall customer experience.”
And that raises the next question, “Is this operational issue actually affecting customer experience?”
Looking through the dataset, there isn’t a single column titled “Customer Experience Score.” Instead, customer experience must be inferred based on multiple indicators, such as Customer Rating, Customer Care Calls, Reached on Time, or Discount Offered.
These variables became the main focus of my investigation. But measuring these factors wasn’t enough to explain the issue. The next step was to understand whyy this might be happening.
From KPI to HypothesisAfter calculating KPIs, I’m often tempted to jump straight into creating charts and calling the results “insights”. But this time, I want every analysis to start with a hypothesis.
Rather than trying to prove a single explanation, I want to explore various possibilities and let the data guide the investigation. Here’s what the research I have in mind looks like:
♦Image Generated by Gemini AIHypothesis 1. Delivery Performance May Affect Customer ExperienceMy first hypothesis is probably the most intuitive one, hehehe. If customers receive their orders late, there is a reasonable expectation that they may have a poorer shopping experience, which could eventually be reflected in lower their ratings. But rather than assuming that’s the case, I want to let the data answer that question. So, the first diagnostic question is:
Do customers experiencing delayed deliveries tend to report lower customer ratings?
rating_delivery = (♦
df.groupby("Reached.on.Time_Y.N")
.agg(
avg_rating=("Customer_rating", "mean"),
total_orders=("Customer_rating", "count")
)
)
rating_delivery
I’m not trying to prove causality here. I just want to know if late deliveries are associated with worse customer ratings.
Surprisingly, the results didn’t support my initial hypothesis at all! Customers with delayed deliveries reported an average rating of 3.01, while on-time customers reported 2.97. This “teeny-weeny” difference suggests no meaningful relationship between delivery timeliness and customer ratings. It completely challenges one of the most obvious business assumptions. Even tho roughly 59.67% of orders were delivered late, customers just don’t rate their experience differently based on delivery status alone. At this stage, delivery performance is definitely not the main driver of customer ratings.
Of course, that doesn’t mean my investigation is over. It actually makes me wonder, if delays are so common, “why are they even happening in the first place?”
H1.1 If Delivery Performance Matters… Why Are Deliveries Delayed?The previous analysis suggests that delayed deliveries may not directly explain customer ratings. But, the late delivery rate remains unusually high. So the next diagnostic question is, “Which shipment mode experiences the highest proportion of delayed deliveries?”
shipment_delay.rename(♦
columns={
0: "On Time",
1: "Late"
},
inplace=True
)
shipment_delay
Using proportions instead of raw counts makes it much easier to compare performance. Interestingly, the delay rates are almost identical across the board with Flight (60.16%), Ship (59.76%), and Road (58.81%). Since Flight is only slightly higher, the variation is way too small to blame a specific transportation mode. But honestly, ruling this out is still a huge clue for me. If one method had been a total disaster, it would be an obvious target to fix. Instead, this tells me the issue is much broader than the shipment mode itself, helping me eliminate one big suspect and shifting my focus to new questions.
H1.2 Is Shipment Mode Really the Problem?Or is shipment mode simply reflecting operational inefficiencies occurring elsewhere in the fulfillment process?
One possible explanation is warehouse performance. To investigate this possibility, the next question is, “Which warehouse contributes most to delayed deliveries?”
warehouse_delay = pd.crosstab(♦
df["Warehouse_block"],
df["Reached.on.Time_Y.N"],
normalize="index"
)
warehouse_delay
Once again, the same pattern shows up. Warehouse delay rates are almost identical, and even though Warehouse B has the highest late rate, the variation is too tiny to mean anything. So, I definitely can’t blame a specific warehouse for these late deliveries.
So, instead of pointing fingers at one bad warehouse, it clearly shows me that delays are distributed evenly throughout our whole fulfillment network.
At this point, I’ve officially scratched off two major suspects:
Even tho I haven’t found the root cause yet, eliminating these obvious operational guesses has successfully narrowed down my search space!
Hypothesis 2. Customer Support May Reflects Service QualityHmm yaa.. Shipping performance isn’t the only possible explanation. Another possibility is that customers who repeatedly contact customer service are experiencing unresolved issues during their shopping experience. If that assumption is true, customers with more customer care interactions should report lower ratings. This raises another diagnostic question, “Do customers making more customer care calls tend to report lower customer ratings?”
care_rating = (♦
df.groupby("Customer_care_calls")
.agg(
avg_rating=("Customer_rating", "mean"),
customers=("Customer_rating", "count")
)
)
care_rating
The results show that customer ratings remain remarkably flat, no matter how many times a customer calls support. Instead of a consistent decline, the scores just bounce around a tiny, narrow range between 2.96 and 3.08.
This tells me that the number of customer care calls alone isn’t a red flag for customer dissatisfaction here. In other words, the spam-callers aren’t necessarily giving us terrible ratings. Of course, that doesn’t mean customer support is completely irrelevant. It just means the relationship isn’t as obvious as my initial thought.
Hypothesis 3. Pricing Strategy May Be Masking Deeper ProblemsFinally, I also wanted to challenge another common business assumption.
Promotions are often used to stimulate purchases and improve customer engagement. However, discounts do not automatically improve customer experience. So.. another diagnostic question is, “Do customers receiving larger discounts still report poor customer ratings?”
To make the analysis easier to interpret, discounts were grouped into three categories.
df["discount_group"] = pd.cut(♦
df["Discount_offered"],
bins=[0,10,30,100],
labels=[
"Low",
"Medium",
"High"
]
)
discount_rating = (
df.groupby("discount_group")
.agg(
avg_rating=("Customer_rating","mean"),
customers=("Customer_rating","count")
)
)
discount_rating
The results show basically zero variation between the discount groups. Customer ratings remain almost identical no matter how big the discount is.
Surprisingly, the customer group getting massive discounts doesn’t look any happier than the others. This tells me that a discount strategy alone isn’t going to fix or explain the customer experience here.
Hypothesis 4: Customer Loyalty May Influence Customer ExperienceAfter running all those operational hypotheses, I noticed something kinda frustrating but interesting. Delivery performance? Flat. Customer support calls? No pattern. Discounts? Identical ratings.
At that point, I started wondering… Hmm, what if this isn’t an operational issue at all? What if customer experience is driven by something purely behavioral? Like, customer loyalty?
My logic here is pretty simple here, customers who buy from us repeatedly are probably more used to our shopping process, shipping timelines, and overall quirks. So, my next question is, “Do customers with more prior purchases actually give higher ratings?”
df["loyalty_group"] = pd.cut(♦
df["Prior_purchases"],
bins=[0, 3, 6, 10],
labels=[
"New",
"Returning",
"Loyal"
]
)
loyalty_rating = (
df.groupby("loyalty_group")
.agg(
avg_rating=("Customer_rating", "mean"),
customers=("Customer_rating", "count")
)
)
loyalty_rating
At first glance, the numbers aren’t exactly mind-blowing. Me is definitely not expecting a scenario where loyal customers rate for a whole point higher than new ones.
But, hmm wait… a subtle pattern does crawl up! The average ratings gradually increase the more prior purchases a customer has. While the gaps are small, returning and loyal customers consistently report slightly better scores than first-time buyers.
Now, does this prove that loyalty causes satisfaction? Yeahh… Not really. This is possibly customer keep buying because they already liked us in the past, or maybe familiarity just sets more realistic expectations, so they don’t get disappointed as easily. Either way, this was one of the few hypotheses that actually showed a consistent directional trend across my whole analysis.
Reality Check: Connecting the Dots (and Embracing the Flat Lines)After testing all those hypotheses, I sat back and looked at the bigger picture. To be honest, the results were a bit of a reality check. Delivery performance, customer support calls, and discount strategies all turned out to be completely flat lines that barely made a diff on customer ratings. The only real runner in this analysis was customer loyalty, which showed a small but positive trend.
In a textbook or a classroom project, I (maybe youu also hehehe) expect to find that one perfect, glaring root cause. But in the real world of data, sometimes the most valuable insight is realizing that the answer simply isn’t in the data you are currently tracking.
These flat relationships are telling me that we might be measuring our logistics and warehouse operations perfectly, but we are completely missing how customers actually feel. Customer experience isn’t just a byproduct of isolated operational metrics. Instead, it’s heavily shaped by behavioral and psychological context that lives outside this dataset, like product quality consistency, brand trust, or the frustrating gap between what marketing promised versus what reality delivered. At the end of the day, you can’t fix customer perception purely with faster trucks or bigger discounts.
Business RecommendationsTo explore my other projects, feel free to check out my Medium or GitHub. Stay tuned for more challenging projects~~
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Dear Readers,
I’ve had this topic on my writing list for a long time because I genuinely believe it can change how an internship is experienced.
Today, I’m finally sharing it.
Whether you’re preparing for your first internship or mentoring someone who is, invest just 4 minutes in this read. The lessons ahead can make the difference between simply completing an internship and truly making it count.
It is not uncommon to see interns getting excited to see themselves all dressed up in a suit, shaking hands with experienced professionals, participating in important meetings, and discussing matters that make it feel like they are running the world.
Amid all that excitement, what they often overlook is one reality:
organizations are made up of people, and people bring emotions.
Every workplace is shaped not just by processes and technology but by personalities, emotions, ambitions, and unspoken expectations. These are the forces that quietly influence decisions, relationships, and opportunities.
Maneuvering one’s way through office politics during internship is
Difficult
because no course, no mentor, and no orientation session quite equips them to balance the emotional weight of it all.
Office politics cannot be avoided altogether, especially as an intern. But one can avoid becoming overwhelmed by it.
The five points discussed hereafter, do not promise to eliminate the discomfort, but they will prepare interns for the hidden realities that no orientation session prepares them for.1. Observation Is The Key
Before forming strong opinions, choosing sides, or offering bold views, observe. Watch who defers to whom. Notice whose ideas get taken up in a room and whose get politely sidelined. Pay attention to the dynamics over lunch as much as in the boardroom.
Takeaway: Treat your first month as a listening phase, not a proving phase.
2. Relationships Are Political Whether You Want Them to Be or NotBuilding relationships matters, but so does understanding that not every relationship is equally genuine. Colleagues who seem warm and welcoming early on may have their own agendas. It’s just grown-up reality, which we rule out as cynicism during our early careers.
Takeaway: Build relationships widely and genuinely. Be warm without being naive.
3. Your Ego and Your Temper Are Your Biggest VulnerabilitiesThis one is hard to hear, and most interns learn it the hard way.
You’ll work hard on something and watch someone else get the credit. You’ll be talked over in a meeting. You’ll receive criticism that feels personal or be asked to redo work that you were proud of. You may encounter a senior colleague who is dismissive, territorial, or simply difficult—and in that moment, every instinct in you will want to react.
Don’t.
Ego management and temper management are not about suppressing who you are. They’re about choosing the response that serves you best.
As an intern, with limited context and little organizational influence, the cost of reacting emotionally is even higher.
Takeaway: The most emotionally intelligent person in the room is almost never the loudest, the most defensive, or the quickest to react. Discipline your responses. It’s a skill.
4. Neutrality in Conflict Is a Superpower, Not CowardiceThere will be friction. Teams have tensions. Managers have rivalries. Departments compete for budget, credit, and influence. And at some point, someone, perhaps several people, will bring that friction to you, whether you asked for it or not.
A senior colleague vents about another manager. Two teammates are clearly not speaking to each other, and each wants you quietly onside. Someone asks your opinion on a dispute you barely understand.
This is one of the situations that catches most interns off guard. You want to be liked. You want to be helpful. Saying nothing feels awkward, and taking a side feels supportive.
Takeaway: Stay neutral during conflicts. Listen. Be kind. Don’t carry messages. Don’t fuel fires. Step back, and let the people involved work it through.
5. What You Learn About Culture Is as Valuable as What You Learn About the WorkEvery organization has two cultures: the one it advertises and the one it lives.
Takeaway: Pay attention to both. Not so you can judge, but so you can understand. Ask yourself at the end of each week: How does this organization handle disagreement? Who gets to fail safely, and who doesn’t? What does it take to be respected here?
Final ThoughtWhat separates the interns who grow from those who quietly lose confidence isn’t intelligence or talent. More often, it’s emotional awareness, the ability to observe before reacting, stay grounded under pressure, and understand that success at work is shaped as much by people as by performance.
A writer is nothing without a reader.If this article helped you, share it with a friend preparing for internships or entering corporate for the first time.
Nothing would make me happier.
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As we reach the halfway point of 2026, many buyers and sellers in Waterloo Region are asking the same question: Is the market behaving the way we expected back in January? The short answer is yes and no.
What We Expected in JanuaryMore Inventory — After several years of tight supply, forecasts pointed to a more balanced market with more homes available for buyers.
Stables or Slightly Softer Prices — Most local analysts expected prices to remain relatively flat or experience modest declines.
Improved Affordability — Lower mortgage rates and softer pricing were expected to bring more first-time buyers into the market.
A Gradual Increase in Sales Activity — The expectation was not a return to the frenzy of 2021-2022, but a healthier, more active market than 2024-2025.
What Actually Happened (January-June 2026)Inventory Increased — Buyers had significantly more choice compared with recent years. Waterloo Region reached roughly 3.6-4.0 months of inventory by spring 2026, placing the market in balanced territory.
Prices remained softer year-over-year — Average prices in Waterloo Region were generally 4-7% lower than a year earlier, though some months showed modest month-over-month improvement.
Homes took longer to sell — The average time on market increased compared to 2025, especially for condos and some townhomes.
Buyer activity improved, but cautiously — Sales picked up during the spring months, but remained below long-term averages. Buyers returned, yet many remained price-sensitive and selective.
Monthly Market SnapshotYou have more options — Inventory levels are healthier than they have been in several years.
Prices are not surging — While some neighbourhoods remain competitive, broad price growth has slowed.
Due diligence matters — The market allows more time for inspections, financing approvals, and careful decision-making than the pandemic-era market did.
More info for buyers.
What Sellers Should Know Right NowPricing matters more than ever — Today’s buyers are comparing more listings and negotiating more aggressively.
Presentation pays off — Professional photography, staging, and strategic marketing can make a difference in a balanced market.
Expect a more normal timeline — Many homes are taking longer to sell than they did in 2021-2022, especially if they are priced above market value.
More info for sellers.
Looking Ahead to the Second Half of 2026Most indicators suggest that Waterloo Region will continue to operate in a balanced market environment. Inventory levels remain elevated compared with recent years, while prices appear to be stabilizing rather than accelerating sharply upward.
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There’s something special about summer in Waterloo Region. Long evenings, backyard barbecues, mornings spent with a coffee outdoors, and weekends filled with family and friends. The good news? You don’t need a cottage or a plane ticket to create that vacation feeling. With a few thoughtful outdoor upgrades, your backyard can become the staycation destination you’ve always wanted.
Whether you’re planning a full backyard transformation or simply looking for ways to elevate your outdoor living space, these ideas can help you make the most of every sunny day this season.
1. Create the Ultimate Patio RetreatA well-designed patio serves as the foundation for outdoor living. Think of it as an extension of your home. It’s a place where comfort and functionality come together.
How to bring this outdoor space to life:
Enhance the ambiance by layering lighting to create a warm evening atmosphere. Choose soft, neutral furnishing for a resort-inspired look. Add potted herbs or fragrant plants like lavender for a fully sensory experience.
How to use the space:
Pergolas have become one of the most desirable backyard features, providing both visual appeal and practical shade. They create a defined outdoor “room” that feels elevated and intentional.
How to bring this outdoor space to life:
It’s all the little details that make any outdoor space feel as comfortable as the inside of your home. Train climbing plants such as clematis or wisteria to grow over the structure. Or you can use flowing curtains to create a cabana-like atmosphere at home. Add warm lighting for cozy evenings, and choose comfortable seating that encourages lingering conversations.
How to use the space:
Nothing says summer nights quite like gathering around a fire. A dedicated fire pit area naturally brings people together and extends the use of your backyard well into the evening.
(Be sure to check the open fire bylaws applicable to your home.)
How to bring this outdoor space to life:
A burning fire, the sound of crackling, and flickering flames might be all the ambiance you need to relax, but there are a few other things to consider: Keep seating close enough to encourage conversation. Depending on the direction of the wind, you may want to rearrange your seating. Incorporate natural stone for a cottage-inspired feel.
How to use the space:
For homeowners who love to entertain, an outdoor kitchen can transform summer hosting. Even a simple setup can make meal preparation more enjoyable and keep everyone connected while food is being prepared.
How to bring this outdoor space to life:
Create an easy flow between the cooking and dining areas, and add task lighting around the cooking areas. Incorporate consistent materials and finishes for a polished look. These will make the space look great, but let’s be honest…this one is all about how it smells and tastes.
How to use the space:
If your idea of summer vacation includes fun and socializing, consider creating a dedicated outdoor entertainment space. These areas can be customized for families, sports fans, movie lovers, or anyone who enjoys hosting.
How to bring this outdoor space to life:
Make this space unforgettable by creating multiple seating zones for larger gatherings. Use lighting to define spaces and improve evening visibility. Include weatherproof storage for all your games and accessories, and add decorative accents to reflect your personal style. Check out these backyard wow factors that can elevate your summer entertaining.
How to use the space:
Read: How to Create a Memorable Outdoor Movie Night
Make This Summer Feel Like a GetawayThe best outdoor spaces aren’t necessarily the largest or most expensive. They’re the ones that invite you to slow down, spend time with loved ones, and enjoy everything summer has to offer.
Whether you’re upgrading your patio, adding a pergola, or creating the perfect entertainment area, investing in your outdoor space can make every day feel a little more like a vacation.
If you’re dreaming of a home with more room to enjoy summer outdoors, our team would love to help you find the perfect backyard to match your lifestyle.
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It was a typical Woolwich "review" which means that it was done for appearances sake not to reform or improve it. Afterall they has been working perfectly just as planned by Chemtura and the Ont. Ministry of Environment . TRAC ended up replacing them and stands for either Totally Rotten and Corrupt or what Woolwich calls it which is disingenuous. Regardless there was exactly zero improvement from the public's viewpoint and interest.
The Woolwich Observer published a story titled "Woolwich to review how its environmental watchdog functions" written by Leah Gerber on November 9, 2023. In it Sebastian was the only member to tell it like it is with multiple criticisms and concerns including the committee being routinely at a disadvantage technically and often bulldozed. Other members such as Eric Hodgins, Wilson Lau and Susan Bryant thought that that was just fine. They made excuses as well as deflected towards better communications with the public.
The bottom line is that the committee can suggest this or that and even criticize something strongly but it goes nowhere if Lanxess and the MECP are not in favour of it. One obvious example is RAC, TAG & TRAC's attempts to get a commitment to clean part of the Canagagigue Creek whether semi fake "hotspots" or actually any part of the downstream highly contaminated Creek. All they have commitment wise is delay, delay and more delay without any commitment whatsoever to do a damn thing.
1983’s The Sleeping Dragon is the first volume of Joel Rosenberg’s Guardians of the Flame decalogy.
To university students Karl Cullinane, Andrea “Andy-Andy” Andropolous, James Michael Finnegan, Doria Perlstein, Walter Slovotsky, Jason Parker, and Louis Riccetti, Professor Arthur Simpson Deighton, Ph. D is simply their gamemaster in a tabletop game that is sufficiently distinct from Dungeons and Dragons to avoid a lawsuit from that notoriously litigious company. In fact, Arthur is something more than that.
Arthur has a small knack with actual magic. Also, Arthur has a large knack for being a monumentally self-centered asshole.
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This talk by Robert Massoud, founder of Zatoun and co-founder of WRFP is offered as part of the “Lunch & Learn” series sponsored by MCEC PIN (Mennonite Church Eastern Canada – Palestine/Israel Network) .
No shortage of words for peace, just shortage of peace.
We hope for peace and live in the “language of peace” but where has it brought humanity and the planet. Why is peace so elusive? Why is the language not bringing us closer to peace?
Robert looks at the language of peace and why it betrays the pursuit of peace and how we can begin to recapture the language and the peace. All are invited to conversation following.
For more details, please visit Lunch and Learn: The Language of Peace – Mennonite Church Eastern Canada.
We can be grateful for living in a vibrant community of courage, commitment and solidarity. See you on Thursday for The Language of Peace, For the Children of Gaza Benefit Concert and for “Walk with Palestine” on Saturday.
Irene
Waterloo Region Friends of Palestine
www.instagram.com/wrfriendsofpalestine/
Dear friends of Palestine,
WRFP is overjoyed to partner with Peggy Weber & Friends to bring this unique evening to Waterloo Region. Together we celebrate the culture and resistance through song and music, while fundraising for families in Gaza.
Tax-deductible Donations via MCC at St. Jacobs Benefit Concert for Children in Gaza June25 | Mennonite Central Committee
Already over $2,100 raised online alone! Thank you to the many that have given even if cannot attend event.
WRFP is very happy to be hosting For the Children of Gaza, a fundraising concert on Thursday, June 25 at 7:00 p.m. at St. Jacobs Mennonite Church.
The evening features Peggy Weber & Friends joined by Palestinian singers. Peggy brings together an eclectic group of 15 well-known local musicians to make glorious music from heartfelt folk, blues, gospel harmonies, classic singalongs, to soulful acoustic performances. With a presentation and conversation with Robert Massoud, long-time Canadian-Palestinian activist and co-founder of WRFP.
This unforgettable evening of music will raise funds for the children of Gaza. Although the destruction of Gaza is not in the news now, the children still live in rubble and tents and are in greater need of emergency support than ever. All donations are tax-deductible through Mennonite Central Committee and directed toward emergency aid for Gaza children and families, including food assistance, warm clothing, and mental health support programs.
For people who cannot attend the event to donate, there is a webpage to accept tax-deductible donations online – already has received $2,100 towards the overall goal of $12,000.
It promises to be an unforgettable evening of inspiring music to bring people together and make a difference in the lives of Gaza’s children.
The event is Free – no registration required. Come as you are, bring your heart, and make community for a unique and inspiring evening. All ages and all nations welcome!
See the exciting program: Waterloo Region Friends of Palestine – Children of Gaza Benefit Concert – program – 2026-06-25 (PDF, 82 kBytes)
Irene
Waterloo Region Friends of Palestine
www.instagram.com/wrfriendsofpalestine/
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The Waterloo Region luxury real estate market continued to show strength in May 2026, with both single-family and attached luxury homes performing in seller’s market territory. While inventory has increased compared to last year, buyer demand remains active, particularly for well-positioned homes that are priced strategically and presented properly from the start.
For homeowners considering selling a luxury property in Waterloo Region, the numbers point to an important takeaway: there is still opportunity in the market, but buyers are not moving blindly. The strongest results are going to homes that align with current buyer expectations, show exceptionally well, and are supported by a thoughtful pricing and marketing strategy.
Single-Family Luxury Homes in Waterloo RegionThe luxury benchmark price for single-family homes in Waterloo Region was $1,100,000 in May 2026. During the month, there were 246 active luxury single-family listings and 65 sales, resulting in a 26% sales ratio. This placed the single-family luxury segment firmly in seller’s market territory.
The median luxury sale price for single-family homes reached $1,271,200, up from $1,188,750 in May 2025. This represents a year-over-year increase of approximately 7%, showing continued resilience in the upper end of the market.
At the same time, inventory also rose substantially. There were 246 luxury single-family homes available in May 2026 compared to 166 in May 2025, an increase of 48%. Sales activity also improved, with 65 sales compared to 50 the year before.
This combination tells a more nuanced story. Sellers have more competition than they did last year, but buyers are still active. In other words, the market is moving, but not every listing will receive the same level of attention. Homes that are well-prepared, well-priced, and marketed with intention are more likely to stand out.
Homes Are Still Selling QuicklyLuxury single-family homes spent a median of 16 days on the market in May 2026, down from 18 days in May 2025. This shows that desirable properties are still moving at a healthy pace.
However, the median sale-to-list price ratio was 97.77%, slightly lower than 98.60% the year before. This suggests that while demand remains strong, buyers are still negotiating and paying close attention to value. Sellers should not interpret a seller’s market as a guaranteed over-asking result. Pricing discipline still matters.
The most active single-family price band was $1,700,000 to $1,899,999, which saw a 50% sales ratio. This indicates particularly strong buyer activity in that segment of the luxury market.
Bedroom Count Matters in the Luxury SegmentThe strongest single-family activity came from 4-bedroom homes, with 31 sales and a 32% sales ratio. These properties had a median sale price of $1,283,000 and a median of 16 days on market.
3-bedroom homes also performed well, with a 28% sales ratio and a median sale price of $1,187,500. Larger homes with 5 bedrooms posted a more balanced 20% sales ratio, while 6+ bedroom homes remained in seller’s market territory with a 22% sales ratio.
For sellers, this reinforces the importance of understanding how your home fits into the market. A 4-bedroom executive home, a large estate-style property, and a downsizer-friendly luxury bungalow may all sit above the luxury benchmark, but they attract different buyers and require different positioning.
The attached luxury market also remained in seller’s market territory in May 2026. The luxury benchmark price for attached homes was $700,000. There were 67 active listings and 15 sales, resulting in a 22% sales ratio.
The median luxury sale price for attached homes was $760,000, down from $835,000 in May 2025. While this represents a 9% year-over-year decrease, the broader picture is more balanced. Total sales were unchanged year over year, with 15 sales in both May 2025 and May 2026, while inventory increased from 38 to 67 listings.
In simple terms, buyers had more attached luxury options to choose from this year. That added competition likely contributed to softer median pricing, even though sales activity remained steady.
Attached Homes Are Selling Faster Than Last YearOne of the most notable improvements in the attached luxury market was the drop in days on market. Attached luxury homes spent a median of 18 days on market in May 2026, compared to 44 days in May 2025.
The sale-to-list price ratio also improved, rising from 98.32% in May 2025 to 100.68% in May 2026. This means that, on a median basis, attached luxury homes sold slightly above list price in May.
The most active attached luxury price band was $820,000 to $839,999, where the sales ratio reached 200%. This indicates very strong activity in that range, although smaller sample sizes can make individual price bands more volatile from month to month.
For homeowners thinking about selling a luxury home in Waterloo, Kitchener, or the surrounding Waterloo Region communities, the current market offers a strong opportunity, but strategy matters more than ever.
Inventory is higher in both the single-family and attached luxury segments. More choice for buyers means presentation, pricing, exposure, and timing all play a major role in the final result. A luxury listing cannot rely on the market alone. It needs to be launched properly.
That includes preparing the home before it hits the market, using professional photography and video, creating a strong digital presence, and pricing with both comparable sales and current buyer behaviour in mind.
Today’s luxury buyers are still willing to act quickly when the right property becomes available, but they are also informed, selective, and value-conscious. Homes that feel dated, overpriced, or poorly marketed may sit, even in a market that technically favours sellers.
Is Now a Good Time to Sell a Luxury Home in Waterloo Region?For many sellers, yes. The May 2026 data shows that the luxury market in Waterloo Region remains active, with seller’s market conditions in both the single-family and attached home segments.
However, the best results are likely to come from a tailored approach. The right strategy will depend on your property type, neighbourhood, price range, condition, and the current level of competition in your segment.
A luxury home in Colonial Acres, Westmount, Upper Beechwood, Laurelwood, Carriage Crossing, or another sought-after Waterloo Region neighbourhood should not be marketed with a one-size-fits-all plan. Luxury buyers are looking for more than square footage. They are looking for lifestyle, quality, privacy, location, and confidence in the value they are purchasing.
Thinking About Selling Your Luxury Home?If you are considering selling a luxury home in Waterloo Region, understanding where your property fits within the current market is the first step. A strong sale starts well before the listing goes live.
The Deutschmann Team provides a tailored, full-service approach to luxury real estate in Waterloo Region, including strategic pricing, elevated marketing, professional presentation, and local market expertise.
If you are thinking about selling, we would be happy to help you understand what your home could be worth in today’s market and what steps would help position it for the strongest possible result.
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Luxury homes in Waterloo Region are defined by far more than price. They combine location, scarcity, quality, and lifestyle appeal in a way that attracts a smaller, more selective pool of buyers. Knowing whether your home falls into that category, and how to position it before listing, can change your final sale result.
Key Takeaways:A luxury home in Waterloo Region refers to a property that stands out across a combination of location, scarcity, build quality, lifestyle appeal, and buyer perception. In most cases, these homes start above $1M, but price alone is not enough to make a home luxury.
A house can be expensive without feeling rare. A different home can feel elevated, desirable, and hard to replace even when it is not the highest-priced home on the street. Knowing which category your home falls into matters when it is time to sell.
When we evaluate a higher-end home for sale in Waterloo, Kitchener, Cambridge, or any of the surrounding townships, we look at several factors that buyers actively weigh:
Buyers pay a premium for neighbourhood prestige, school catchment, walkability, privacy, trails, views, and proximity to amenities.
2. Scarcity:Oversized lots, mature trees, custom architecture, and one-of-a-kind settings cannot be easily replaced.
3. Quality:Custom construction, premium materials, craftsmanship, and the level of finish throughout the home all impact perceived value.
4. Lifestyle:Buyers are not just buying square footage. They are buying how the home lives day to day: layout, light, flow, and outdoor space.
5. Presentation:Photography, video, staging, floor plans, and listing copy shape buyer perception long before the first showing.
6. Buyer Emotion:The strongest higher-end homes make buyers picture themselves living there. Emotional pull drives stronger offers.
The strongest luxury homes deliver on most or all of these factors. The weakest ones rely on price alone, and that rarely meets buyer expectations in today’s market.
The buyer pool for a higher-end home is smaller and far more selective than for a typical listing. At $1M, $1.5M, $2M and beyond, buyers are not browsing dozens of listings each week. They are carefully comparing a handful of strong options across multiple neighbourhoods, often across municipalities.
These buyers are weighing finish level, layout, lot quality, privacy, neighbourhood reputation, outdoor living space, basement function, garage capacity, natural light, condition, and overall emotional pull.
That is why a luxury home cannot rely on a standard MLS® listing and a handful of photos. It needs a strategy.
Before we bring a higher-end home to market, we look at who the most likely buyer is, what they will care about most, what competing listings currently exist, and how to position the home so its value becomes clear quickly. That clarity is what creates urgency in a market where buyers have options.
One of the most expensive mistakes in higher-end real estate is assuming that a high list price automatically creates a luxury perception. It does not.
If the pricing, marketing, and buyer expectations do not align, buyers hesitate. They may like the home but feel no urgency. They compare it to newer homes, larger homes, more updated homes, or better-located homes. They wait. They watch. Some move on entirely.
Once a higher-end home sits on the market for too long, the perception around it begins to shift. Buyers stop asking, “Could this be the one?” and start asking, “Why has this not sold yet?” That question is hard to recover from. Even if there is nothing wrong with the home, longer days on market often invite lower offers and heavier negotiation.
This is why the launch matters. The first impression matters. The pricing strategy matters. The story matters. In the higher-end market, a strong start often defines the final result.
Luxury is not the same in every part of Waterloo Region. Each neighbourhood attracts a different buyer, and the marketing strategy needs to reflect that.
The way you market a renovated character home is not the same way you market a newer custom build. A lot backing onto open green space tells a different story than a walkable downtown property. The buyer profile changes, and the strategy must change with it. This is where local market knowledge becomes essential.
What Sellers Should Ask Before Listing A Higher-End HomeIf you are thinking about selling a luxury home in Waterloo Region, the first question is not, “What price can we list at?” The better questions are:
The answers to these questions shape everything that follows, from photography direction to listing copy to which buyer channels we prioritize. Most realtors have access to the same MLS, the same photographers, and the same social platforms. What separates teams is the strategy behind the process and the experience to negotiate when it matters.
How The Deutschmann Team Approaches Higher-End ListingsWhen we represent a higher-end home, our goal is never just to “get it on MLS®.” Our goal is to maximize the result. That means looking at the full picture from the first conversation through closing.
For every luxury listing, we develop a custom plan that includes:
A luxury home deserves more than a generic listing. It deserves a plan built around what makes it valuable to the right buyer.
FAQ: Luxury Homes in Waterloo Region What price is considered luxury in Waterloo Region?+There is no single price that defines luxury across every neighbourhood. In most cases, homes starting above $1M are considered higher-end, with true luxury typically reaching $1.5M, $2M, or higher depending on location. Price is only one factor. Scarcity, quality, location, and buyer perception all play a role in whether a home is truly luxury.
Do I need a luxury real estate agent to sell my home?+If your home is custom-built, extensively renovated, located on a premium lot, or difficult to compare directly to other listings, you benefit from an agent who understands higher-end positioning, presentation, pricing, and negotiation. Generic marketing rarely produces the strongest result for a unique property.
Why do some expensive homes sit on the market in Waterloo Region?+Higher-end homes most often sit when they are overpriced, presented poorly, marketed to the wrong buyer pool, or positioned in a way that does not clearly communicate value. Once a luxury listing loses early momentum, it becomes harder to regain, which is why the launch strategy matters so much.
How do I know what my higher-end home is worth?+The most accurate way to value a higher-end home is to review recent comparable sales, current active competition, buyer demand at your price point, property condition, lot quality, updates, and the lifestyle appeal of the home. Online estimates rarely capture these factors accurately, especially for unique or custom properties.
What makes a luxury home sell for more?+The strongest results come from the right combination of accurate pricing, thoughtful preparation, professional presentation, targeted marketing, qualified buyer reach, and skilled negotiation. When each of these elements is done well, the home attracts attention from serious buyers and creates the conditions for the strongest possible offer.
Thinking About Selling Your Home In Waterloo Region?If you are considering selling a luxury or higher-end home in Waterloo, Kitchener, Cambridge, St. Jacobs, Woolwich, Wellesley, or anywhere else in the region, the first step is understanding how your home should be positioned in today’s market.
At The Deutschmann Team, we help sellers identify what makes their home valuable, who the most likely buyer is, and what strategy will create the strongest result. Your home deserves more than a listing. It deserves a pricing, marketing, and negotiation plan built around the right buyer.
If you would like a confidential evaluation of what your home may be worth in today’s market, we would be happy to help. Request your free home evaluation to start the conversation.
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During the earlier years of my writing career, all life experiences were filed under “material” for future writing projects. This mindset helped me endure difficult times, and even the drudgery of caring for small children (which goes hand-in-hand with the joy) could be made to feel useful, as if I were collecting scraps that could one day be turned into a delicious writer’s stew.
A few years ago, during the pandemic, I recognized that all of my writing was therapeutic, including the literary writing I’d been calling my career and vocation. I did not like this idea at all. I rebelled and revolted against it, maybe because it felt exploitative, even of my own experiences (let alone everyone else with whom I am in relationship).
Lately, I’ve been feeling at peace with this discovery—that my writing is therapeutic, that I’ve practiced it with devotion out of necessity, as much as discipline. My writing has kept my head above water, while also giving me a sense of purpose and hope during dull or aimless or desperate periods of my life. Writing soothes and comforts me. Writing fiction has deepened my capacity for empathy, sharpened my curiosity to learn how others see and frame the world. Writing is a magnetic force that pulls me in its direction; yet writing has never quite become the organizing principle around which I can structure, to satisfaction, my energies and priorities. Is writing my reason for being? My purpose and calling? Or is it the practice that sustains my purpose and calling?
My life is structured around relationships. Connection is my organizing principle. I am a quiet interior person, yet I thrive on sharing experiences with others.
I recently did a time audit, tracking the minutiae of my activities throughout a week (valuable, because so much of my time is “unstructured,” at present). First, I noticed that I spend a lot of time being with others, focusing on the needs of others (and that this brings meaning to my days). The flip-side is that I spend a lot of time in self-oriented activities—going to the gym, writing and journaling, quiet time alone, walks with friends. Focus on self; focus on others. Fill the cup; pour it out. Experience; process the experience. Action; reflection. Sometimes there is overlap between these circles—for example, biking on an errand feeds my spirit while the errand may benefit someone else; a walk with a friend can be both an experience and a processing of experiences.
One more observation: I spend very little time “working,” when work is defined as as an exchange of one’s time and skills for commensurate financial gain in the form of salary or paycheque, benefits, pension, etc. When someone asks “What do you do?” they generally mean “What do you do for a living?” And for this, my time audit showed very clearly, I have no good answer. I’ve been writing poems all spring; does that count? I also spend a lot of time looking after my dad right now, trying to understand his needs as they change, keeping my siblings and wider family in the loop, connected, feeling togetherness, mutually supported. Is this work? It’s just life, isn’t it?
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When my kids were little, I stayed home to look after them for close to a decade (while trying to find time to write). This was a hard time, in many ways, for many of the same reasons that now is a hard time, in my life. “What do you do?” I’m a writer, I would have said then; or not, depending on how confident I felt in that identity on a given day or hour.
Twenty years ago, I was writing poems too.
They’re in a stack of books and projects beside me now—a manuscript titled “Famous Love Story,” which was never published in full, and did not earn me a living, though it probably kept me sane and grounded. Reading those poems now returns me to the tones and textures and chaotic/serene inner life of early motherhood. (As in the photos above and below, when I was the mother of a six-month-old infant.)
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Maybe poems belong to this strange between-time, when my identity feels threadbare outside of my relationships—mother, daughter, sister, spouse, friend. Thank heavens for friendships, the landing spot for safe ranting and commisseration and truth-telling and kindness. (Not that there isn’t respite and kindness and ranting inside those other relationships too, but friends are a different category of caring and reciprocity; side note, just finished reading The Weekend, by Charlotte Wood, and now I want to write a book about friends—maybe in twenty years or so!)
So. Poems. Self/Other. Making meaning, meaning-making.
Is my CV an incoherent tangle of part-time, contract, volunteer, temporary job-jobs? Or is it a fascinating but partial record of a person who has been a steady, creative, connective presence in the life of her family, for which there is no job title, no description shorter than a novel, and for now at least, no particular beginning or end? Probably both. That’s life.
xo, Carrie